Episode Transcript
Every morning, before you even speak ... you're already saying something.
Your presence... the look in your eyes, the pace of your breath, the way you walk into a room ... all of it tells the world which current you're bringing with you today.
Some mornings, that current is calm ... steady, clear and gentle. Other days, its restless, crashing, unpredictable. And that's okay. The tide changes - so do we.
Your attitude isn't just how you act.
Its the invisible rhythm guiding everything ... your emotions, your energy, your connection to others.
You've seen it before; one person walks into the room smiling, and suddenly the whole atmosphere softens. Or the opposite - someone's storm follows them everywhere they go.
We like to think our moods are private ... but they never really are.
The current we carry touches everyone around us - family, friends, coworkers, even strangers we'll never meet again.
I used to think attitude was something you put on, like a jacket you wear for the day. But with time, I learned it's something you build from within, a quiet decision made moment by moment.
Because attitude isn't a switch ... it's a language. It's the story your emotions tell your behaviour ... and your behaviour tells the world.
In psychology, they used to call it the "ABC of Attitude" :
A - Your Affective which is what you feel
B - Your Behavioral which is what you do
C - Your Cognitiive which is what you believe
But let's say it simplier:
What you feel becomes what you do, and what you do becomes what you believe about yourself. That's the loop - the current that keeps moving, even when you're not watching.
And here's the truth we often forget - you can redirect that current at any time.
If you start your day believing the world is heavy, you'll move like someone carrying weight. But if you begin with the smallest whisper - "Today, I'll briing light" - you can change the current before it ever reaches shore.
I've met people who carry sunlight into every conversation. Not because their life is easier, but because they choose to become their own weather.
That's what attitude really is:
the weather system of your spirit.
And in a world that's always rushing, always comparing, always shouting ... choosing calm, choosing kindness, choosing presence - that's not weakness. THAT'S STRENGTH!
So if you take one thing from today's reflection, let it be this:
The current you carry matters. To you. To others. To the world that feels you before it even hears you.
You don't have to fix everything. You don't have to be endlessly positive. You just have to be aware ... to notice when your tide is pulliing you too far from shore, and gently, patiently ... turn back toward the light.
Tomorrow morning, before the rush begins, take one slow breath. Feel the air fill your lungs, and ask yourself:
What current am I carrying today?
And whatever it is ... anger, love, gratitude, exhaustion - acknowledge it. Own it. Then decide ... where do I want it to go?
Because the ocean doesn't apologize for its waves. It just keeps showing up - steady, endless and alive.
Be like that.
Show Up.
Carry your current with intention.
Every morning, before you even speak ... you're already saying something.
Make sure it's something kind.